Cambridge records “excuse someone for something/doing something” in the forgive sense, supporting for + -ing when naming the conduct being excused.
ReviewedEvidence1 sourceSectionEnglish Usage
Quick answer
Use “excuse someone for doing something” when you mean forgive or pardon the action. “Excuse someone to do” is not the parallel complement construction.
Key details
Confusion Familygrammar-and-usage distinction
Rule Familypreposition and verb-complement pattern
TermsExcuse Someone For Doing, Excuse Someone To Do
Further guidance
Boundary
Do not confuse this with “excuse someone from doing something,” which means release the person from an obligation or attendance requirement rather than forgive a completed act.
Construction
The conventional complement is excuse + person + for + noun/-ing clause when the following action is the reason, conduct, or circumstance being referred to.
Decision
Use “excuse someone for doing something” when you mean forgive or pardon the action. “Excuse someone to do” is not the parallel complement construction.
Sources and evidence
Sources are shown with the role they play in this guide. Historical or style-sensitive claims are kept within the evidence boundary described above.
Cambridge records “accuse someone of something” and specifically “accuse someone of doing something.” That supports of + -ing when the action is the alleged wrongdoing.
Cambridge records accustomed to something and gives -ing examples such as being accustomed to working or being treated in a particular way. Do not interpret the “to” after accustomed as an infinitive marker in this construction.
Cambridge distinguishes adapt to a situation or activity from transitive patterns such as adapting plans to fit new circumstances. The surface sequence “adapt … to + verb” therefore needs its grammatical structure identified before choosing an -ing form or infinitive.
Cambridge distinguishes “apologize to someone” from “apologize for something/doing something.” You can combine the two roles, as in “apologize to someone for doing something”; “to” marks the recipient while “for” marks the reason.
Cambridge distinguishes intransitive “approve of” for a favorable opinion from transitive “approve something” for official acceptance or authorization. The official-authorization sense uses transitive “approve” with an object; do not collapse that separate sense into the “approve of doing” judgment pattern.
Oxford documents the person-action pattern as be banned + from + -ing and separately documents direct-object uses of ban. The cited evidence does not support person + to-infinitive as the equivalent prohibition construction.
