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Blame Someone For Doing vs. Blame Someone To Do

Cambridge records blame someone for something and examples such as not blaming someone for getting angry, supporting for + -ing when the action is what the person is blamed for.

Quick answer

Use “blame someone for doing something” when naming the action for which the person is held responsible. “Blame someone to do” is not the parallel complement construction.

Key details

Confusion Familygrammar-and-usage distinction
Rule Familypreposition and verb-complement pattern
TermsBlame Someone For Doing, Blame Someone To Do

Choose the right form

Decision table for Blame Someone For Doing vs. Blame Someone To Do
Meaning / situationConstructionDecision
hold a person responsible for an actionblame + person + for + -inguse “for + -ing”
assign something as the cause or responsibilityblame + thing + on + person/thinga different documented frame
proposed infinitive complementblame + person + to-infinitivedo not use as the parallel action complement

Quick tests

Responsibility-frame test

Are you naming the action for which a person is blamed?

If yes: Use “blame someone for doing something.”

If no: If you are assigning a cause with “blame X on Y,” use that separate frame instead.

Caveat: The alternative “blame X on Y” does not license “blame someone to do.”

Examples

Example

They blamed the vendor for missing the deadline.

“For + -ing” names the action being blamed.

Example

They blamed the delay on a failed shipment.

This uses the separate “blame X on Y” frame.

Incorrect

They blamed the vendor to miss the deadline.

Better: They blamed the vendor for missing the deadline.

Use “blamed the vendor for missing the deadline.”

Further guidance

Boundary

Blame also has the pattern blame something on someone. That alternative assigns responsibility in a different syntactic frame; it does not make blame someone to do a standard complement.

Construction

The conventional complement is blame + person + for + noun/-ing clause when the following action is the reason, conduct, or circumstance being referred to.

Decision

Use “blame someone for doing something” when naming the action for which the person is held responsible. “Blame someone to do” is not the parallel complement construction.

Sources and evidence

Sources are shown with the role they play in this guide. Historical or style-sensitive claims are kept within the evidence boundary described above.

  1. blame — Cambridge Dictionary (opens in a new tab)Cambridge Dictionary · Current dictionary evidence for blame someone for something, including -ing complements in examples and usage.

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