“Cry over spilled milk” means dwell on or regret something that has already happened and cannot be changed, especially when continued regret is not useful. British English also uses the variant “cry over spilt milk.”
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Quick answer
“Cry over spilled milk” means regret or dwell on something that has already happened and cannot be changed; UK English also uses “spilt milk.”
Key details
Canonical Formcry over spilled milk
Core Meaningfeel regret about something already happened or unchangeable, especially when that regret is unhelpful
Variant Formcry over spilt milk
Further guidance
Contextual Examples
We missed the deadline, but there is no use crying over spilled milk; we need a recovery plan.
The booking is gone now, so crying over spilt milk will not help us find another room.
History Boundary
The guide publishes current dictionary-supported meaning and spelling variation without claiming an exact inventor, coinage date, or absolute first use.
Meaning
regret or dwell on an event that is already over and cannot now be changed
Meaning Boundary
It does not mean people should ignore consequences or refuse to learn from mistakes. The point is that regret alone cannot reverse the event.
Practical Use
Use the idiom when continued regret focuses on something that has already happened and cannot now be changed. British usage also has “spilt milk.”
Sources and evidence
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