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Cold Shoulder

To give someone the cold shoulder is to show deliberate coldness, indifference, or rejection. The reviewed history reports Walter Scott’s 1816 “cauld shouther” wording, while the familiar cold-mutton explanation is explicitly unsupported folk etymology.

Quick answer

It means to deliberately treat someone in an unfriendly, dismissive, or indifferent way. Printed use is reported in Walter Scott’s The Antiquary (1816); the “cold shoulder of mutton for unwanted guests” story lacks supporting evidence in the reviewed history.

Key details

Core Meaningdeliberate coldness, indifference, or rejection
Origin Statusprecise coinage unresolved; cold-mutton story unsupported
Reviewed Historyreported in print by 1816

What the evidence supports

Supported

The expression is reported in Walter Scott’s The Antiquary in 1816.

Phrase Finder reports the “cauld shouther” wording in Scott’s 1816 novel.

Unsupported

The phrase originated from serving cold shoulder of mutton to an unwelcome guest.

The reviewed specialist history explicitly says there is no evidence supporting this popular explanation.

Documented timeline

  1. 1816

    Scott wording reported

    Phrase Finder reports “showing o’ the cauld shouther” in Walter Scott’s The Antiquary.

    secondary reportedconfidence: high

Variants

give someone the cold shoulder

Current standard idiomatic form.

Meaning over time

Deliberate rejection or indifference

Treat someone in a deliberately unfriendly or dismissive way.

Further guidance

Chronology

Phrase Finder reports Scott’s 1816 “cauld shouther” wording and later reuse; this establishes reported chronology, not a proven act of coinage.

Meaning

Cambridge records the expression as deliberate unfriendly or ignoring behavior.

Origin Myth Boundary

The cold-mutton story is popular but Phrase Finder says there is no evidence for it and treats it as folk etymology.

Sources and evidence

Sources are shown with the role they play in this guide. Historical or style-sensitive claims are kept within the evidence boundary described above.

  1. Cold shoulder — Cambridge Dictionary (opens in a new tab)Cambridge University Press · Current meaning
  2. Cold Shoulder — meaning and origin (opens in a new tab)The Phrase Finder · Reported chronology and folk-etymology audit

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